We all crave companionship. It's human nature. But chemistry is altogether different. When you have chemistry, no matter what else seems to stand in the way of your relationship, you can handle it. Without that all-important chemistry, you may find that, after a time, your relationship becomes a frustrating burden instead of a joyful comfort.
Chemistry is the thing that allows you to fall IN LOVE. You can love a person easily enough without it. Mutual respect and friendship go a long way there. And although a necessary part of any healthy relationship, without chemistry. that respect and friendship can turn into resentment and score-keeping pretty quickly.
Once you have chemistry, you must develop that respect and friendship. If you do, you are well on your way to a successful long-term, committed relationship. Congratulations! The biggest mistake people seeking #LOVE make is settling for the first pair of pretty brown eyes that flirt in your general direction. Part of the problem is that we don't always know what chemistry is supposed to feel like.
Chemistry is often thought of as nebulous, in other words, not definitive. But that's absolutely not true. People who've never felt true chemistry say that. Just because you have yet to experience it, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Or, if it does exist, that it's overrated. You underrate your need for passion if you believe that.
Passion isn't something we get to experience very often in life. But if you have chemistry, you can experience it daily if you want--whether you work in a cubicle all day, or sit behind a desk fielding phone calls. No matter who you are, you deserve the kind of passion only chemistry can bring. The kind you see in the picture above. Yeah, it's that good. Better. Or at least, it can be.
So don't give up! And definitely don't give in. Chemistry is very possible. When you have it, the person you're into can turn you on without even saying a word. A simple text can open the flood gates. The object of your affection doesn't have to lay a finger on you for you to easily slide into ecstatic joy.
You picking up what I'm putting down??? Mmmmhmmm....
If you don't yet have it, go out there and find that person who can make your body sing. No, I'm not kidding. Your life is made when you do. And if you've already found that unique person, but somehow, let them slip through your fingers? GET HER DONE, SON! Do and say whatever necessary to win that person back. If you had chemistry, it won't be hard. Because she undoubtedly misses that about you, too.
Don't you want to get closer? Especially with someone who finds you equally irresistible??? The answer, in case you hesitated, is a resounding YES!!!!