The most ancient philosophies and theologies on the planet include the movements of the heavens in their belief systems. Similar to the #Moon affecting the tides, we are likely prone to the influence of other heavenly bodies. We are as much a part of our physical world as the ocean itself.
People born under the sign of #Cancer have a tough road in life; they're "tikun" or karma is connected to a lack of love and stability in family. It's the thing they want most in the world, yet it often eludes them. They choose people who will betray them, over and over and over again. Henry VIII, for example, was born under the sign of #Cancer. All he wanted was a good woman who would love him and carry on his family name. Every attempt he made ended in misery and, more often than not, murder. Cancerians are very moody people, almost bi-polar in that they both love and hate with equal intensity. The reason?
#Fear is their Master.
The world and all its many problems are magnified because Cancerians are self-centered. That makes them insecure, too. They never trust anyone because their view of the world is limited by fear. As a result, they wait for people to make mistakes because it confirms their negative outlook.
In general terms, Cancerians are not confrontational; they're passive-aggressive That means they like to lay traps. They're prone to manipulation in order to make the world exactly the way they want it. This makes Cancerians more clingy than anything. As a result, love is not only hard to find, but even harder to keep.
Their resentful natures have them hold on to grudges forever. Family problems are common to Cancerians. So is a lack of boundaries. A Cancer will constantly require proof of love and commitment. Their general lack of trust and suspicious natures drive people away. Far away.
But Cancerians aren't all bad. They're just tortured souls. Often considered intuitive, sometimes psychic, Cancerians can be good lovers if all their many criteria are met and maintained. They want what they want when they want it, and if you miss an important date, or keep them waiting, or make them feel unloved, your life will be a living hell. It's all about them; no one else exists in their world. And the moment someone else does, there's resentment. The only time there isn't, is if a Cancerian feels superior. They often appear as a savior or rescuer to the weak and vulnerable as a result when, in fact, Cancerians are known for their own vulnerability. They're just scared. All the time. Their insecurity attracts them to those they feel are weak. And that's the real reason they will always have a difficult time finding real love....
Cancerians can be miserable people. Nothing is ever good enough. And never will be. Their paranoia means there's no such thing as kindness or love for the sake of kindness or love; it often baffles them. They must set out to prove it a lie, a falsehood. Like the crab they are represented by in the Zodiac, Cancerians are crazy when angry; they're infamous for their tempers. And, their mouths. They often challenge the wrong people and get crushed as a result. But if they love you, they can make you feel comforted and safe. That is, until you make a mistake. Even a small thing becomes big in the eyes of a Cancerian. It creates a push-pull dynamic that holds the loved ones of a Cancerian emotional hostage.
Basically, this month, watch out for moments where you let fear creep in, making you feel insecure, thereby blurring boundaries you'd otherwise respect. You also want to avoid being too clingy with friends. Resentment will creep in when people don't meet your fantastically high expectations. Don't forget your place; you're not the center of the Universe. You're a cog in a machine. Cogs don't make demands. It's not ambition that will cloud your judgment either. It's delusions of grandeur. Your vision will not be clear; you will see things that aren't really there as part of the influence of the sign's paranoia. So keep your feelings in check.
And remember, you can't force love. If you have to, it's over anyway. Maybe it will take a year. Maybe less. But you can't make people feel what they don't feel, even if you try to control all the variables by strong-arming commitment and demanding proof of loyalty.
Love, like life, has no limits, unless you're a Cancer. Then, there's a list! But don't worry, in just a few weeks, LEO rises. I'm a Leo. We blind our enemies with our #Light. Living fire, we never get burned. Nothing stops us. We have courage, heart. We're open and generous. Full of joy, we live life to the fullest. We have no limits. We are expanders. Life-givers. Like the #Universe itself.
Something to look forward to when the influence of the cancerous-crab comes to its inevitable end....